Why is Gen Y’s faith being packed away with their Barbie dolls and baseball cards?
So what might bring us back?
Let me tell my story and the three things that helped me re-faith.
I’m a PK. That’s a pastor’s kid for those not mired in Christianese.
As I began making life my own, away from professors and parents, I experienced a dramatic re-definition/refining of my own faith as a twentysomething. That’s a polite way to say I felt like a Pinata getting the candy slammed out of me every day — doubts and questions smacking me like a baseball bat in the hands of Barry Bonds.
The biggest question I waded through every day — Does my life actually resemble what I say I believe?
On a good day I felt like a hypocrite.
On a bad day I felt like an ugly liar and an insecure fake.
I write about this faith-lost-n-found more in my upcoming book All Groan Up: Searching for Self, Faith, and a Freaking Job! But here are the three things that helped bring me back.
3 Things that Might Help Gen Y Re-Faith
1. Less “Relevance” More Authenticity
There’s been a big push for relevance in the church. Not a bad thing. However, to a majority of churches “relevance” means solely using the best technology. Hip marketing slogans. A light and fog show during the worship that resembles a Coldplay concert — basically a unified effort on Sunday to make it as Contemporvant as possible.
Gen Y doesn’t want a slick and sleek faith. We are bombed with marketing every day. I wanted a place where I could bring questions, doubts, and fears and have a safe place to be heard.
2. Compelling Stories
It was the movie Walk the Line about Johnny Cash that spoke to me more about faith than any sermon.
If Gen Y can enter a story larger than simply the do’s or don’t’s lest you be sent to hell, then faith will find it’s relevance.
3. Listening to the Questions Without Giving Answers
To be authentic with Gen Y you have to be secure enough to not always answer the question.
No take John 3:16 twice in the morning and you’ll feel fine and doodily-dandy. No apply Jeremiah 29:11 to that gaping hole in your chest.
No, Gen Y needs just simple nods of understanding.
It was those few special people who were willing to get down on their knees in the mud with me, that pulled me up.
Future of Faith for Gen Y
I think Millennials will still make faith an important aspect of their lives, they just might not do it in a big building every Sunday morning. Andrew Sullivan summed up this trend in a recent Newsweek article headlined: Forget the Church, Follow Jesus. Gen Y and Millennials have led the major backlash against “organized religion”.
Faith will still be important, tying that faith to a specific religious denomination might not.
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