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Like advice from a wiser, funnier, older brother Paul's been there, done that, and wants to save you some pain and some trouble.

– Seth Godin, New York Times bestseller and author of The Icarus Deception

Why you can’t give up now


You can't give up. On your dream, on your passion, on this vision for your life that extends farther and further than your current reality. You can't pull an Elsa and just let it go -- shooting shards of ice at anyone who brings up those dreams you used to talk about. No matter how distant [...]


What’s your story?

What's Your Story - Photo?

There you are. Sitting in an interview. Or across from a date. At a party, holding tight to the food table and your drink. Then it happens. As you're nervously trying to snag that dream job, a second date, or you're just mid-bite of a chip with some guacamole hanging off the side of your [...]


5 Lies that are Holding You Back


I know what it's like to be stuck. In your career. In your relationships. When you have big hopes and dreams, yet you feel like you're not living the life you were meant to live. That was me. For far too long. It took me many years and overwhelming amounts of frustration to realize that the [...]